Blogs

My Notes on Performing Progress in Your Twenties

A reflective blog on performing progress in your twenties, exploring social media pressure, timeline anxiety, marriage expectations, career milestones, and the hidden exhaustion of trying to look “on track.”

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My Notes on Content Extraction Guilt

A reflective essay on content extraction guilt — the tension between experiencing books privately and turning them into online content. On reading slowly, posting strategically, and trying to remain a reader first in the age of visibility.

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My Notes on How the Body Remembers Touch

A reflective essay on physical closeness, distance, and how the body remembers touch even when the mind adapts. Exploring intimacy, absence, emotional regulation, and the quiet imprint of love.

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My Notes on Silence as Penance

A reflective essay on silence that comes from guilt rather than peace. Exploring withdrawal, self-erasure, responsibility, and the quiet cost of believing you must earn the right to be visible.

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My Notes on Social Media as the Centre of Publishing

A reflective essay on how social media has shifted from being an add-on to becoming the centre of publishing. On visibility, marketing, slow books, algorithms, reader trust, and the evolving relationship between writing and promotion.

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My Notes on Escapism That Heals

A reflective essay on a gentler kind of escapism — not as avoidance, but as care. On books, stories, quiet routines, and how intentional retreat can support healing, regulation, and return.

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My Notes on Chemistry Not Being Compatibility

A reflective essay on why chemistry and compatibility are not the same in modern relationships. Exploring attraction, conflict, effort, and what it actually takes to sustain love beyond the initial spark.

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